The 9 month-old relationship between odd couple, Paris Hilton and Benji Madden, is finally over. I say finally cause in Hilton’s standards that is way too much time with the same man. Reportedly Paris and Benji have had a lot of fights lately, especially in the past couple of months.

“Paris was fed up with Benji always telling her what to do and bossing her around,” says the insider. “She couldn’t take his overbearing ways anymore. It was stressing her out. He can be very aggressive and he was just too much trouble.”

Benji didn’t take the breakup well, says the source. “He fought for a second chance and asked if they could talk it out but Paris said she was done talking,” reveals the insider.

The last straw was Paris night out with her ex-boyfriend Stavros Niarchos on Saturday.

“Benji didn’t like it that she spent the evening with Stavros,” says the source. “He blew up and Paris felt victimized. He gave her a lot of grief about that.”

They bottom line is that they were just different people. “She felt she couldn’t cut loose and party,” says the source. “He doesn’t drink and doesn’t think she should either. She felt too fenced in.”

We can’t blame it all on Paris! It takes two to tango, if you know what I mean… Star magazine reports Benji wasn’t exactly the good guy everyone thought he was. He has allegedly been caught cheating on Paris a couple of times.

Photos of the happy couple: Paris Hilton & Benji Madden

[images: WENN]