Samantha Ronson wants to erase their rough past by starting a new life as a married couple but it seems like Lindsay Lohan isn’t really into the whole walking down the aisle and eternal vows of love thing. Not unless Sam accepts some of her outrageous demands!

“Lindsay wants Sam to completely stop talking to her old girlfriends and cut off family members who don’t like Lindsay-and that’s most of Sam’s family.”

“They see how much Sam and Lindsay fight and believe their relationship is toxic.”

Samantha is desperate and according to sources she has even begged Lindsay to marry her, saying: “Marry me, Lindsay! Please marry me!” That is kind of pathetic! These two clearly need each other even if their relationship is unhealthy – I think it’s what keeps them going.

“They needed space and time,” says the insider. “They’ve been on top of each other with living and work and life. Lindsay’s now in a new house around the corner from Sam. It’s going to allow them some space.”

“They break up and make up all the time,” says the Lindsay insider. “There are a lot of speed bumps in this relationship — but that’s part of the attraction.”

Lately Lindsay has been re-bonding with her little sister, Ali Lohan (looks scary skinny in the photos!), who is possibly going to move in with her. The two sisters were seen out and about shopping in Malibu.

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