Ex-Real Housewife of New Jersey and Famous Food star, Danielle Staub just can’t seem to keep her sex life out of the public eye.

According to RadarOnline, a superior court judge ruled against Staub’s request to dismiss the defamation lawsuit she claims is ‘frivolous”, filed by her ex-lover, Stephen Zalewski.

Zalewski originally filed suit against Staub in 2010 for harassment and character defamation claiming that the allegations made during an episode of Real Housewives of New Jersey, that he taped her while having sex without her knowledge were ruining his life.

I have people come up to me in restaurants telling me I’m going to hell, I’m not a good person. I try to explain to people I didn’t do anything wrong. She would send me video texts of her playing with her self, I have nothing to do with that.

Zalewski’s lawyer, Nace Naumoski, spoke out defending her clients character.

Stephen never hid a camera. Accusing someone of hiding cameras is terrible. It’s not only defamatory; it is a third degree crime in New Jersey.

Oh, New Jersey – you never cease to amaze me.  You have to be the only state in the nation in which there is a law in place to keep someone from lying about you – lying to them – about filming them having sex.

Love it.

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